Well let's see.... Techinally I am an only child. My parents divorced when I was 14, my mom remarried the next year and my dad finally remarried a couple years ago so I have 4 step brothers and a step sister and their spouses. My husband is the oldest of 3 kids. His parents are divorced, his mom is remarried and his dad is engaged so I have a SIL, BIL and several step-inlaw siblings. For the most part we are pretty close (closers to some then others)
My parents both came from good size families so I have tons of aunts, uncles and cousins.
When I was a child we would have large family gatherings through out the year but as time went on, they dwindled to an occasional get together.
We have 2 kids. My mother's second husband passed away 5 years ago and now she lives with us.
For the past couple of years we have hosted the holiday dinners and summer BBQs. We can have anywhere from 5 to 20 guests for a holiday dinner or bbq.