LOL if any of you were closer to me I would babysit for you. I love kids and never really have any problems with them. As for the single parent thing I honestly do not know how a woman or a man does it all on their own. For those couples that do have kids I commend you ALOT. Even with two people it is hard. Dunno this from experience just from talking and observation. I wish I was able to have kiddos, but I can't. Adoption is what we are looking at doing and most likely next year will be the year for it.