my self and my husband has been watched like that too! and if we take all the kids with us its even worse. and when they do this itmakes you feel....I can't even find the right word, Dirty maybe? I nor my husband nor our kids have EVER took anything and to be honest I have a motto "If I didn't earn it, I dont want it" I'm so sorry this happend to you! it just makes ya shake your head sometimes and wonder what on earth is this world coming to.