Sugar, speaking of terrible twos, my granddaughter never really went through it. She is 3 and half now, I hope she is not saving it all up for an older age!
Both of her brothers sure did go through it!!! Yikes!!! My daughter went through them BIG TIME but my son never did. He is 22 years old and still calm. He is not perfect and tends to be lazy but just never threw fits or got into everything.
Lots of patience and you will get through it just fine (your little one will too
) but I know what you are going through!