sorry have not answered your pm will soon
Have to agree with the rest on this one
And he may walk away but its not fair on him maybe wanting his own child
I no he adores your 2 but sometimes that is enough and sometimes not
But either way i think the truth is best then its in his hands. and the choice will be his you cant make that choice for him.
If he loves you and hes sounds a brill fella. he may realise that he cant lose you so your on a winner
But think honesly is best. guess you have to give him the choice as you had the same choice, give yourself a bit of time to talk over ,explain
I really hope all works out for you ~}