I'm going to sound like Scrooge but we don't do cards or wrapping paper (much) for any celebration. We were only making an effort to catch up with people once or twice a year and taking the easy road by sending a printed letter exactly the same to everyone in a card at Christmas. It was all feeling very impersonal and disconnected so we decided that we were going to try really, really hard to visit or communicate by phone or Skype. It's our little effort to improve friendships with a more personal approach and help the environment a little too. Please don't get me wrong I love cards but WE were using them as a way to not actually get together with people, avoiding contact, so we just changed our own ways and we are not trying to start a trend.