{"id":23733,"date":"2015-12-06T06:00:02","date_gmt":"2015-12-06T13:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/?p=23733"},"modified":"2015-12-05T20:44:08","modified_gmt":"2015-12-06T03:44:08","slug":"tips-for-keeping-santa-special","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/tips-for-keeping-santa-special\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips for Keeping Santa Special"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In the spirit of St. Nicholas Day (December 6th) we offer a few suggestions for keeping the magic of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> alive. <\/p>\n<p>The figure of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> Claus holds a special place in the heart of anyone who loves <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>. Belief is not measured in wanting <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> to bring things &#8212; belief is embracing the <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">love<\/a> and hope and joy and giving of the season. <\/p>\n<p>Famously it is said that there are four stages in life: <em>you believe in <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a>, you don&#8217;t believe in <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a>, you believe in <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> again, then you look like <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a>.<\/em> Funny as that statement is the truth is that is the typical pattern of belief in <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> Claus in life. As one matures <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> becomes appreciated for different things at different times. <\/p>\n<p>There are many reasons for that and our purpose here is not to debate whether or not <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> deserves a place in your life. You&#8217;re reading this because, in your heart, he does. And perhaps you worry a little bit about those you <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">love<\/a>, whether young or old, and their belief in <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> Claus as well. <\/p>\n<p>How do you keep <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> special? How can you avoid the pratfalls that come with belief in the Big Guy? 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We&#8217;re not talking your neighborhood mall <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> who works tirelessly every day of the holiday season waiting on lines of children. We&#8217;re talking of companies that sell letters and packages &#8220;from Santa&#8221;, those who extort fees for an appointment &#8220;in person&#8221; or &#8220;by video&#8221; to see <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> Claus. <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> Claus gives freely of himself at all times and in all places. Don&#8217;t make those who profit from his image or popularity succeed. <\/p>\n<p>4. <strong>Become <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a><\/strong>. <\/p>\n<p>The real power behind the magic that is <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> comes from emulating him. You don&#8217;t need to grow a beard or don a red suit &#8212; you only need to focus on the selfless giving of the season to grasp and enjoy the magic of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> Claus. 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