{"id":25800,"date":"2017-11-02T22:24:24","date_gmt":"2017-11-03T04:24:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/?p=25800"},"modified":"2017-11-02T21:39:54","modified_gmt":"2017-11-03T03:39:54","slug":"loving-thanksgiving-christmas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/loving-thanksgiving-christmas\/","title":{"rendered":"Loving Both Thanksgiving and Christmas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> are seemingly at odds with each other these days. The politically correct thing seems to be \u201chonoring Thanksgiving\u201d by not doing <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> too early. We must avoid the nefarious thing called &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.vicksburgpost.com\/2017\/11\/02\/fighting-off-the-christmas-creep\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Christmas Creep<\/strong><\/a>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p>Target made a splash in the news by announcing they were not going to <em>\u201cgive in to <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> Creep\u201d<\/em> by eschewing <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>. (Although they still have aisle after aisle of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> stuff you can buy while you notice their <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> signs and listen to their moralizing politics).<\/p>\n<p>Other retailers are getting in the act, too. Plenty have made it widely known that this year \u2013 contrary to the trends of the past several years \u2013 they will not be open on <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> Day. For this they want recognition and praise. However, not a single one of them will turn off their websites on <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>. Nothing, it appears, is that sacred.<\/p>\n<p>All this is bleeding down to social media and even among teens.<\/p>\n<p>My two teenage daughters today mentioned \u201cthere is a thing going around at school about <a href=\"http:\/\/theweek.com\/articles\/734568\/why-are-already-celebrating-christmas\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>not doing Christmas yet<\/strong><\/a>\u201d because <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> is coming up first.<\/p>\n<p>On the one hand, this is refreshing.<\/p>\n<p>We <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">love<\/a> everything about <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>. We <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">love<\/a> the idea of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>. We have long felt <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> was the perfect gateway to <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But, on the other hand, <em>isn\u2019t this getting absurd? <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Since when is <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> an impediment to the celebration of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>In fact, since when has <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> EVER been diminished by <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> is arguably the most celebrated holiday on the federal calendar in the United States. It is quite nearly universal.<\/p>\n<p>According to the U.S. Census Bureau more than 97 percent of Americans observe <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s bigger than <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>, folks.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> has a lot of stunning statistics to back it up as America\u2019s most celebrated holiday.<\/p>\n<p>Come <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> we will consume nearly 50 million turkeys. Nearly as many people will hit the road just to be with family and, speaking of family, a whopping 95 percent of Americans celebrate <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> with family.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> is doing just fine, thank you.<\/p>\n<p>No &#8212; the big argument seems to be about money and advertising.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason, <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> is guilty of overshadowing everything just because it is for sale.<\/p>\n<p><em>Well, whose fault is that?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> has an advantage over every other holiday for one simple reason: it is a season.<\/p>\n<p>And nothing else is.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Not <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>, not <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Halloween<\/a>, not Valentine\u2019s Day \u2013 nothing else is a season.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t a more widely anticipated time of the year than Christmastime.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> \u2013 and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Halloween<\/a> and New Year\u2019s \u2013 could all just be considered more of a part of that one grand season known as <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Some call it The Holidays \u2013 and they should. After all, what other 63-day period of the year has so much to offer and to celebrate?<\/p>\n<p>So why then do we have to divide?<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t there some kind of commonality about <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>? Isn\u2019t there a way to <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">love<\/a> them both?<\/p>\n<p>Can\u2019t we just appreciate what they are individually \u2013 AND \u2013 together, at the same time?<\/p>\n<p>Of course we can. In fact, most of us already do.<\/p>\n<p>For many, when the frost is on the pumpkin plans are already on the way for the feast and festivities of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>. Those plans almost always include huge elements of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>For many, putting up the family <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> tree is actually a <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> weekend tradition (more than 60 percent of all households do this).<\/p>\n<p>Tell me &#8212; which holiday are they really honoring \u2013 <em>or dissing<\/em> \u2013 by doing that?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> Claus usually brings up the rear of every <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> Day parade. How could you top that? <em>And why would you if you could?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>There are other mysteries surrounding the celebration of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>For example, at <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> there are very public battles held in America between the faithful and the godless. Times Square in New York is usually the showcase spot for atheist themed ads mocking Christians and belief in God.<\/p>\n<p>America also famously argues the so-called War on <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> by debating <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> displays in public, the singing of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> songs in schools and the separation of Church and State which causes some government officials to call a <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> tree a \u201choliday tree\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>, on the other hand, gets off completely from such debates. Yet it could be the most religious of all holidays.<\/p>\n<p>No other day of the year has been called a \u201cnational day of prayer\u201d as proclaimed many times by U.S. presidents dating back to the days of George Washington.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> Day is the ONE day of the year when the government, through Presidential Proclamation, acknowledges the hand of God.<\/p>\n<p>Where are all the activists then?<\/p>\n<p>But nary an atheist seems to mind. While they attack <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> with relish it seems the religion of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> doesn\u2019t get their notice.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like their mouths are full of turkey or something.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> is a starting point for <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>, no doubt.<\/p>\n<p>For many, this is marked by the start of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> shopping, Black Friday, extended hours, Cyber Monday and \u201cfree shipping\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>But it is also a starting point in other ways.<\/p>\n<p>Most wait until after <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> to turn on their <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">lights<\/a>. Some refuse to hang their stockings until <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> is over. Others hold off on sending their <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> cards until <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> has passed.<\/p>\n<p>But is this all incompatibility?<\/p>\n<p>Does the playing of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> music or the watching of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> movies before <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> really constitute an offense towards the day?<\/p>\n<p>No.<\/p>\n<p>To some, that is just how they celebrate <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It seems they just want that glow of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">lights<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>We say don\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, we encourage you \u2013 strap a <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Santa<\/a> hat on that turkey.<\/p>\n<p>The more the merrier.<\/p>\n<p>To the many naysayers out there who complain about \u201cChristmas Creep\u201d \u2013 <em>just stop<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> doesn\u2019t come from a store. Anyone who really understands <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> knows it is no hallmark of the season when \u201cstuff\u201d of the season goes on sale.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody is hurt by it. In fact, 98 percent of all people really do NOT care.<\/p>\n<p>The best answer for those who don\u2019t like it is stop buying it.<\/p>\n<p>But if it continues to sell then guess what, <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> naysayer?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thanksgiving and Christmas are seemingly at odds with each other these days. The politically correct thing seems to be \u201chonoring Thanksgiving\u201d by not doing Christmas too early. We must avoid the nefarious thing called &#8220;Christmas Creep&#8220;. Target made a splash in the news by announcing they were not going to \u201cgive in to Christmas Creep\u201d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":25801,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","iawp_total_views":24,"footnotes":""},"categories":[28,20],"tags":[110],"class_list":["post-25800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-christmas-features","category-christmas-opinion","tag-christmas-creep"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25800","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25800"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25800\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25801"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}