{"id":26173,"date":"2018-11-04T07:30:00","date_gmt":"2018-11-04T14:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/?p=26173"},"modified":"2018-11-04T07:19:40","modified_gmt":"2018-11-04T14:19:40","slug":"christmas-thanksgiving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/christmas-thanksgiving\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Christmas in Thanksgiving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mmc-220a5.kxcdn.com\/x\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/043bd3723f9375a33b02dd0543d1c709.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mmc-220a5.kxcdn.com\/x\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/043bd3723f9375a33b02dd0543d1c709-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Thanksgiving\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-26174\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mmc-220a5.kxcdn.com\/x\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/043bd3723f9375a33b02dd0543d1c709-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mmc-220a5.kxcdn.com\/x\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/043bd3723f9375a33b02dd0543d1c709-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/mmc-220a5.kxcdn.com\/x\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/043bd3723f9375a33b02dd0543d1c709-230x230.jpg 230w, https:\/\/mmc-220a5.kxcdn.com\/x\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/043bd3723f9375a33b02dd0543d1c709-365x365.jpg 365w, https:\/\/mmc-220a5.kxcdn.com\/x\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/043bd3723f9375a33b02dd0543d1c709.jpg 620w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>A recent survey revealed sharp divisions in when the celebration of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> begins. Nearly a third said <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> begins right after <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Halloween<\/a>, a third said <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> begins right after <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/category\/thanksgiving\/\"><strong>Thanksgiving<\/strong><\/a> and for another third the celebration of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> is something done every day.<\/p>\n<p>In recent years many have insisted that <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> so overpowers the calendar that holidays such as <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and Veteran\u2019s Day are entirely forgotten.<\/p>\n<p>Those making the argument are also those who claim <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> celebration comes in the form of broadcast music, seasonal Starbucks cups and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">decorations<\/a> sold in stores.<\/p>\n<p>There are even those who blanch and take offense at the spoken <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">love<\/a> of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> or the early placed <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> tree in a public space. Each year it is a topic of conversation and even heated debate.<\/p>\n<p>What gets lost on most is that <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> have gone hand in hand, like peas-and-carrots for nearly five centuries.<\/p>\n<p>Their commonality has led to grand ironies about both holidays in modern times.<\/p>\n<p>Both <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> were officially made national holidays in the United States in 1870. Many a historian and Internet blogger have made the mistaken assumption that without such a declaration the celebration of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> was fragmentary at best.<\/p>\n<p>This is not true. Both <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/thanksgiving-history-never-hear\/\"><strong>Thanksgiving<\/strong><\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> were widely celebrated long before the US Congress got around to declaring them official.<\/p>\n<p>That <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> have been celebrated in diverse ways has always been true. For some, both holidays are purely secular affairs. They are \u201ctime off\u201d, at best.<\/p>\n<p>For others both are sacred days of worship.<\/p>\n<p>In this respect both <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> share common roots.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> of 500 years ago was usually not a specific day on the calendar. It was a declared acknowledgement of God.<\/p>\n<p>When there was a great battle won or a large harvest to celebrate a period of \u201cthanksgiving\u201d was declared so that family could gather and thank God for their good fortunes.<\/p>\n<p>Some years saw many Thanksgivings and while gathering and feasting have always been a part of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> its primary purpose was worship.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> too was a time of gathering and feasting around a religious event.<\/p>\n<p>While there is no doubt that end-of-year celebrations have long been distorted as a season for mirth and debauchery, and that the early sacred celebrations of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> likely had nothing to do with that time of the year, traditions of many Christian societies linked <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> due to their religious significance.<\/p>\n<p>In Puritan American history the celebration of both nearly a month apart was an undeclared tradition for the most practical of reasons: late November through December was a time when family could, after a long year of toil, gather together and enjoy the fruits of their labor in celebration.<\/p>\n<p>The literal celebration of \u201cover the river and through the woods\u201d has been an American way of life for over four hundred years.<\/p>\n<p>In those four hundred years the traditions of the holidays have morphed.<\/p>\n<p>For <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a>, things like football and parades have crept in to diminish its religious roots.<\/p>\n<p>For <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>, everything from <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> trees to <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">eggnog<\/a> have watered down its pure celebration that focused squarely on family.<\/p>\n<p>Folks still make both <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> about family. But what family does on and between these two holidays is growing ever more diverse.<\/p>\n<p>But the modern argument that one overshadows the other is false. <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> have never been meant to be observed without the other. In fact, their marriage is what has made it \u201cthe holiday season\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><center><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/BQq7R5Dap5o\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n<p>The secular invasion of all holidays continues to erode their meaning. <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Halloween<\/a>, for example, was long more about the celebration of the dead in a family-way \u2013 the honoring of past generations \u2013 than what it has become today.<\/p>\n<p>That too is the assault on <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> combined. In ever encroaching ways the focus of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> is shifting toward individuals or groups, rather than on home and family \u2013 and worship.<\/p>\n<p>Efforts to counter that trend are endless in the tug-of-war over holidays and what they mean. For example, <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> is now also National Family History Day.<\/p>\n<p>It is a grand irony that <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> Day is also now known as National Pumpkin Pie Day. Pumpkin pie, like <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>, was never a thing associated with merely one day on the calendar.<\/p>\n<p>It too bridged the gap between <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>, both as a food and as a tradition.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> critics and those who now claim godlessness can take heart as well with the celebration of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/sneaking-christmas\/\">Thanksgiving<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> as secular affairs.<\/p>\n<p>December 21<sup>st<\/sup>, as middle of the season as it comes is National Humbug Day and December 23<sup>rd<\/sup> is Festivus, which is the day set aside to grumble and protest over the gross commercialization of <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just offended that Festivus has crept as far back as August on the calendar. Complaining about <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> seems to last longer than <a href=\"https:\/\/mymerrychristmas.com\/x\/celebrating-20-years-of-the-merry-forums\/\">Christmas<\/a> itself.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A recent survey revealed sharp divisions in when the celebration of Christmas begins. Nearly a third said Christmas begins right after Halloween, a third said Christmas begins right after Thanksgiving and for another third the celebration of Christmas is something done every day. 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