also, my landlady, about 10 yrs ago, died of breast cancer while i was teaching her to play solitaire. how she had lived to 65 w/o knowing how to play solitaire is beyond me, but not the point. anyway, one night about 2 months after she died, i was sitting in bed playing sol. the cat (i only had one) was sitting on the bed. suddenly i became aware of a presence beside me in the room (not on the bed) the cat freaked and ran out of the room. i knew it was jean. i told her: jean, i thought i told you before you died that i DID NOT WANT any visitations. so poof on outta here! and she did. and the cat came back in and went over to where i had sensed her standing (floating?) and sniffed and mewed.
xo