Christmas Countdown - 2013

[Christmasstar]

Good morning friends! Well, I have been offered a job at a state agency and have been praying about it. It's not a huge raise in pay but there are a lot more chances to advance, something my current position does not have. I am accepting it. It is bittersweet as I truly like where I work and love the people. But there is just nowhere for me to go in the job. It will be hard to give my notice today but I know it's time.
Thanks for all the prayers!
Snowflake, happy anniversary! Hope y'all can celebrate!
Hope you all have a great day!

 

[snowflake22]

Good Morning MMC!!!!! The warmer weather is making a come back starting today. It looks like we will top out around 80 this afternoon. Not much going on here today. Just a few errands to run. I hope everyone is having a GREAT DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Snowflake- Happy Anniversary, my friend!!!!!!!!!! Wishing you and that wonderful hubby of your's all of the best!!!

Thanks, buddy!!

xx


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[HomemakinGirl]

Morning folks! In the past here I've tried very hard to be here and be apart of the conversation but lately, I've just haven't felt much like being very chatty. Actually, I've been pretty sad and depressed for the past few weeks and It's really tearing me apart on the inside and my family on the outside.

My son (20) moved out the other week against my wifes and my wishes, to move in with his girlfriend of 6 months (21/22). It didn't go over very well and I am really struggling with this. I have always raised my kids to be close to us and to stay with us for a long while, untill they were stable in life. He's not, he gets 10 cents in his pocket and he wants to spend it...

His girlfriend is a spoiled little daddys girl (that my wife, my in-laws and I, do not like at all) and on top of it, her daddy buys her everthing she wants (he's a retired Lawyer and had his own law firm) and right now my son is living there at her townhouse for free, on his dime, sponging off of him and I'm peeved, beyond all means about this whole thing.

I love him still, I am upset at him, I want him back home, I loathe his girlfriend, but yet I'm not supposed to push him further away by lashing out for his actions....My wife keeps telling me to back off and it will play itself out but I haven't. I just don't want to let go and I am starting to drive her and my daughter bonkers with this whole thing, because I want to also punish him for hurting and not listening to us. Am I wrong for feeling that way????

I don't know really how to process all of this and I need some advice; I feel like a part of me has been torn away... :sad: Thanks~

You are not wrong for feeling the way you do! Raising kids sure isn't easy. I think letting them make their own choices and mistakes is one of the hardest parts of being a parent. We naturally want to protect them. But one of the best things we can do is step back and let them experience the consequences of their own actions. I know that is easier said than done. Try and keep a postitive attitude. Invite him home for family dinners. Let him know he can call you anytime. I will be praying for you and your family.

 

[HomemakinGirl]

Good morning friends! Well, I have been offered a job at a state agency and have been praying about it. It's not a huge raise in pay but there are a lot more chances to advance, something my current position does not have. I am accepting it. It is bittersweet as I truly like where I work and love the people. But there is just nowhere for me to go in the job. It will be hard to give my notice today but I know it's time.
Thanks for all the prayers!
Snowflake, happy anniversary! Hope y'all can celebrate!
Hope you all have a great day!

Congratulations on the job offer Ryan, and best wishes!

 

[Seawaters]

So cool, Snowflake. I love it!

I found this cute little guy at the thrift store today. This is for serving a cheese ball, at only $2 I had to bring home home!

 

[HomemakinGirl]

Snowflake, Happy Anniversary!!!

 

[Seawaters]

This might scare you, but I understood exactly what you are saying. Blue skies with rainbows, right? I like that idea. Thanks for the suggestion, MC.

Crazy idea---intersperse variegated sections with sections of blue, suggesting rainbow/sky? Maybe even two or three different, but close, shades of blue. (I may not be describing this very clearly ...)

 

[Seawaters]

Exciting news, Coach.

Dr. told Wifey that the baby had dropped....we have to start going back weekly....

Won't be long now....

I can't wait to meet my daughter.

 

[Seawaters]

So funny, Star!

exciting! We have our place staked out and are waiting with you!

 

[Seawaters]

Xmas Tidings, please PM me. If you can, copy and paste this message in your PM. Praying for you and your family. I know it is hard.

Morning folks! In the past here I've tried very hard to be here and be apart of the conversation but lately, I've just haven't felt much like being very chatty. Actually, I've been pretty sad and depressed for the past few weeks and It's really tearing me apart on the inside and my family on the outside.

My son (20) moved out the other week against my wifes and my wishes, to move in with his girlfriend of 6 months (21/22). It didn't go over very well and I am really struggling with this. I have always raised my kids to be close to us and to stay with us for a long while, untill they were stable in life. He's not, he gets 10 cents in his pocket and he wants to spend it...

His girlfriend is a spoiled little daddys girl (that my wife, my in-laws and I, do not like at all) and on top of it, her daddy buys her everthing she wants (he's a retired Lawyer and had his own law firm) and right now my son is living there at her townhouse for free, on his dime, sponging off of him and I'm peeved, beyond all means about this whole thing.

I love him still, I am upset at him, I want him back home, I loathe his girlfriend, but yet I'm not supposed to push him further away by lashing out for his actions....My wife keeps telling me to back off and it will play itself out but I haven't. I just don't want to let go and I am starting to drive her and my daughter bonkers with this whole thing, because I want to also punish him for hurting and not listening to us. Am I wrong for feeling that way????

I don't know really how to process all of this and I need some advice; I feel like a part of me has been torn away... :sad: Thanks~

 

[Seawaters]

Xmas Tidings' message reminded me of something I have been wanting to do. I corresponded with another member about my prayer life, and how I wanted to be more mindful of it. If any of you have prayer requests that you want to share, please PM me. I am trying to pray specifics, calling forth the names of those for whom prayers are intended. I am trying to keep track in a prayer journal. Also, if you do ask for prayer and it is answered, please let me know that. I really appreciate each of you.

Morning folks! In the past here I've tried very hard to be here and be apart of the conversation but lately, I've just haven't felt much like being very chatty. Actually, I've been pretty sad and depressed for the past few weeks and It's really tearing me apart on the inside and my family on the outside.

My son (20) moved out the other week against my wifes and my wishes, to move in with his girlfriend of 6 months (21/22). It didn't go over very well and I am really struggling with this. I have always raised my kids to be close to us and to stay with us for a long while, untill they were stable in life. He's not, he gets 10 cents in his pocket and he wants to spend it...

His girlfriend is a spoiled little daddys girl (that my wife, my in-laws and I, do not like at all) and on top of it, her daddy buys her everthing she wants (he's a retired Lawyer and had his own law firm) and right now my son is living there at her townhouse for free, on his dime, sponging off of him and I'm peeved, beyond all means about this whole thing.

I love him still, I am upset at him, I want him back home, I loathe his girlfriend, but yet I'm not supposed to push him further away by lashing out for his actions....My wife keeps telling me to back off and it will play itself out but I haven't. I just don't want to let go and I am starting to drive her and my daughter bonkers with this whole thing, because I want to also punish him for hurting and not listening to us. Am I wrong for feeling that way????

I don't know really how to process all of this and I need some advice; I feel like a part of me has been torn away... :sad: Thanks~

 

[Seawaters]

Focus on the Family is a wonderful place to start. There is also a song that I used to sing a lot (by myself in the car or the shower) called "Turn Your Heart Toward Home." The words will really touch your heart and the music is haunting.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNvafd0FzGc

unfortunately this happens to a lot of families, my parents went through it with my brother. Never easy solutions.
I asked mom and she says to get support as soon as possible and do not blame yourself. They also went through all these feelings but it was the support of others that saw them through it. (my brother was on drugs, ran away from home at age 17, lived with his now wife, stole cars etc.)
She suggests this website for some great advice
http://www.focusonthefamily.com/par...nges/teen_rebellion/loving_your_prodigal.aspx
(((((HUGS)))))
By the way, He has now been married for 35 years, they have 4 kids and 7 grand children and he has driven truck for 30 of those years owning his own rig.

 

[Seawaters]

Late in the evening
When everyone was sleeping
The father of a wayward son
Slipped out in the night
And looked towards the city
And wiped away his tears
And Prayed his son could hear his father's cry


Chorus:
Turn your heart towards home
Turn your heart towards home
You've been gone so long
Turn your heart towards home


But not only the sons are wayward ones
There are mothers and fathers
Who have said their goodbyes
And the sad eyes of children
Looking through their tears
Pray their mom and daddy
could hear their cries


There are those who have never walked away from home
But in their hearts they're so many miles away
And the Father in heaven is the only one who knows
And if you'd listen you could hear Him say:

You've been gone so long
Please don't wait too long
Turn your heart towards home

Focus on the Family is a wonderful place to start. There is also a song that I used to sing a lot (by myself in the car or the shower) called "Turn Your Heart Toward Home." The words will really touch your heart and the music is haunting.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNvafd0FzGc

 

[MerryCarey]

This might scare you, but I understood exactly what you are saying. Blue skies with rainbows, right? I like that idea. Thanks for the suggestion, MC.

Right! Broad section of blue(s), narrower section of rainbow colors, section of blue(s), section of rainbow, etc.---keep alternating, ending with a section of blue(s). If the rainbow colors are too bright and loud, the blue(s) could help tone it down a little, depending on what shade(s) you choose. Or alternate white sections ("clouds") and rainbow sections between the blue sections (blue, white, blue, rainbow, blue, white, blue, rainbow, blue, etc.). Or white between the blue and rainbow ... endless possibilities. But don't let me butt into your own good ideas! (Can you tell I enjoy making ripple afghans?)

 

[Seawaters]

Wonderful news, Ryan. Best of luck in your new position!

Good morning friends! Well, I have been offered a job at a state agency and have been praying about it. It's not a huge raise in pay but there are a lot more chances to advance, something my current position does not have. I am accepting it. It is bittersweet as I truly like where I work and love the people. But there is just nowhere for me to go in the job. It will be hard to give my notice today but I know it's time.
Thanks for all the prayers!
Snowflake, happy anniversary! Hope y'all can celebrate!
Hope you all have a great day!

 

[Seawaters]

I love the addition of white! Butt in all you want!

Right! Broad section of blue(s), narrower section of rainbow colors, section of blue(s), section of rainbow, etc.---keep alternating, ending with a section of blue(s). If the rainbow colors are too bright and loud, the blue(s) could help tone it down a little, depending on what shade(s) you choose. Or alternate white sections ("clouds") and rainbow sections between the blue sections (blue, white, blue, rainbow, blue, white, blue, rainbow, blue, etc.). Or white between the blue and rainbow ... endless possibilities. But don't let me butt into your own good ideas! (Can you tell I enjoy making ripple afghans?)

 

[Christmasstar]

Focus on the Family is a wonderful place to start. There is also a song that I used to sing a lot (by myself in the car or the shower) called "Turn Your Heart Toward Home." The words will really touch your heart and the music is haunting.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNvafd0FzGc

Late in the evening
When everyone was sleeping
The father of a wayward son
Slipped out in the night
And looked towards the city
And wiped away his tears
And Prayed his son could hear his father's cry


Chorus:
Turn your heart towards home
Turn your heart towards home
You've been gone so long
Turn your heart towards home


But not only the sons are wayward ones
There are mothers and fathers
Who have said their goodbyes
And the sad eyes of children
Looking through their tears
Pray their mom and daddy
could hear their cries


There are those who have never walked away from home
But in their hearts they're so many miles away
And the Father in heaven is the only one who knows
And if you'd listen you could hear Him say:

You've been gone so long
Please don't wait too long
Turn your heart towards home

I have always like their music and have their albums since my kids were little. Thank you for sharing this.

 

[Christmasstar]

that time again, off to work well at least the kind that pays me!
Have a good afternoon everyone!

 

[Binger]

Omg. It's the anniversary of Elvis' death .... Omg. Wear black !!

 

[Binger]

Omg. 128 till Lovemas. Yabba!