The first thing I'd encourage someone to do is create a Christmas bucket list. Figure out what will really make you happy. It helps you see the things you can ditch. I have a post with ideas https://thestressfreechristmas.com/christmas-activities/
As is often the case in life we also need to learn to say no. We can't say yes to everything, only say yes to the things that make your Christmas better.
@Jordan Rivers we usually have the opposite problem. One year our tree stayed up until near the end of February. I didn't mind but my wife said she was embarrassed about it. LOL