I forgot to wrote this in my earlier post, my oldest is starting to question the existence of Santa Claus.
When my wife was getting ready to leave for work this morning, he kept asking her if she is really Santa Claus. Her response was classic, "Do I look like a jolly fat guy?" But he kept asking if she was the one that brought the presents.
I knew this wasn't going to last forever, but it is really sad that my oldest is starting to not believe in Santa anymore. I truly believed until I was 13-14 years old. I don't want to tell him yet, I was hoping to get through one last Christmas with him truly believing. Hopefully he won't question it again for a little while, but reality is coming and we must let him know probably sooner rather than later.
This has really upset me, I am not ready for him to not believe anymore. I just really don't want him to ruin it for his little brother. I still believe in Santa Claus, and I need to let him know that Santa was a real person and we have to keep his legacy going.
I understand how difficult this is. I am also not looking forward to this day. I hope to make the boys understand that Santa represents the spirit of Christmas and that is something we must always believe in. That magical Christmassy feeling of excitement we get is Santa and ours to hold onto for as long as we like. It must be so heart breaking for you.
I remember finding out but never said anything to my mum and kept it up for her. Till this day my mum always leave presents from Santa to my brother and I.
I am going to have to pick up the book "The Santa Club" that was reviewed here a few years ago, and let him read it to try to not ruin it for his brother.
http://christmasfinest.com/2011/09/10/book-review-the-santa-club/