We did and I got to thinking that others may have done the same.
Thanksgiving of 2000, my niece and her Mom came to visit us. Though my brother and her had been divorced, everyone came to my home to celebrate Thanksgiving. My niece and her mom (my ex-sister-in-law) drove a 7 hr. trip from up north to be with us. My niece always had to mail her gifts to us and we mailed our gifts up to her. But this year I wanted to surprise her. So she did not know that I had a Christmas tree and my basement decorated for Christmas. After dinner I asked her to come down to the basement with me. When she did other members of the family were already down there and we all shouted, "Merry Christmas".
It was grand. She got to experience having Christmas with us (she is the only child so her Christmases have been very lonely).
I am so glad that I combined Thanksgiving and Christmas for my niece. It would be my Mother's last Thanksgiving and Christmas that year. She passed away the following Nov. 2001 and at the time we had no clue it would be her last with us. What a joy she got to spend two special holidays with her oldest grandchild (my niece) and I give my brother and his ex-wife credit for they get along better now then when they were married.
Of course we still had Christmas in December but this Christmas in November was just for my niece and I'm so glad we did it.
Thanksgiving of 2000, my niece and her Mom came to visit us. Though my brother and her had been divorced, everyone came to my home to celebrate Thanksgiving. My niece and her mom (my ex-sister-in-law) drove a 7 hr. trip from up north to be with us. My niece always had to mail her gifts to us and we mailed our gifts up to her. But this year I wanted to surprise her. So she did not know that I had a Christmas tree and my basement decorated for Christmas. After dinner I asked her to come down to the basement with me. When she did other members of the family were already down there and we all shouted, "Merry Christmas".
It was grand. She got to experience having Christmas with us (she is the only child so her Christmases have been very lonely).
I am so glad that I combined Thanksgiving and Christmas for my niece. It would be my Mother's last Thanksgiving and Christmas that year. She passed away the following Nov. 2001 and at the time we had no clue it would be her last with us. What a joy she got to spend two special holidays with her oldest grandchild (my niece) and I give my brother and his ex-wife credit for they get along better now then when they were married.
Of course we still had Christmas in December but this Christmas in November was just for my niece and I'm so glad we did it.