Since I've been quoted about my football experience, I feel I should add more and maybe there will be more understanding.
We would get up early, arrived before everyone else, set up the tables, do our hosting duties, be responsible for the food, the booze and everything. Then we had to close it all up, go into the stadium for the game, sit in a tiny space and have people crawl over us to get by, then after the game we got all the food and booze out and set the tables. Deal with long lines at the restrooms which was not easy because I usually dressed in layers. Socialized which had it's own pressures and we were the last ones to leave. Many times it was very cold and wet. I would be tired, cold and wet.
Plus growing up my brother was and still is a "sports nut". We had to watch football or hear it on tv (back then people had only one tv) In the car we had to listen to football or baseball. I had to go to his Little League games.
I think it's great when women get involved with liking Football. I have really tried and found the only part I like is a long run which happens on rare occasions.
Different strokes for different folks.
And yes, the players choose to be there during the holidays, I just feel bad for their families, that's just me. And yes the bands and units in the parades choose to be there.