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FrostyKnowsBest said:
Happy midday mmc! Most of you are almost through your day! I'm at a doctors appointment in one of the biggest gowns I've ever seen! I could use this as a blanket! They've told me she's running behind, I've been in here for almost an hour. The best part is I am able to read all of your posts! Hope you all have a beautiful day!
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LOL...hope your apt goes well! Have a good day!
 
MerryCarey said:
I can understand the "tiptoeing," but having been on the other end of that ... it's very uncomfortable for the patient, too---suddenly everyone treats you differently and seems to avoid you or be whispering about you. He may prefer to feel like he's the same guy you always knew. Quietly let him know that if he needs an ear, you're available to listen. Some patients don't want to burden anyone with their troubles, but it's a heavy, heavy load to carry alone all day. I know that suddenly having people tiptoeing around me (or worse, totally cutting themselves off from me because they felt awkward) made me feel like "dead woman walking," even though I had a good prognosis. I even grew to dread "Oh, you're looking so good today!" because it made me think: You must have expected me to look like a deathly ill wreck.

Sorry for the diatribe. But I felt I wanted to show the other side of the coin. It's uncomfortable on both sides, and the best thing for both sides is to not let the discomfort build barriers.
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So glad you are beyond that now Merry! (((Hugs)))
 
MerryCarey said:
I can understand the "tiptoeing," but having been on the other end of that ... it's very uncomfortable for the patient, too---suddenly everyone treats you differently and seems to avoid you or be whispering about you. He may prefer to feel like he's the same guy you always knew. Quietly let him know that if he needs an ear, you're available to listen. Some patients don't want to burden anyone with their troubles, but it's a heavy, heavy load to carry alone all day. I know that suddenly having people tiptoeing around me (or worse, totally cutting themselves off from me because they felt awkward) made me feel like "dead woman walking," even though I had a good prognosis. I even grew to dread "Oh, you're looking so good today!" because it made me think: You must have expected me to look like a deathly ill wreck.

Sorry for the diatribe. But I felt I wanted to show the other side of the coin. It's uncomfortable on both sides, and the best thing for both sides is to not let the discomfort build barriers.
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Undoubtedly! I still go into his office with my coffee for our morning politics rant, and I joked about The Great Spelling Bee Fiasco yesterday. That got big laughs. But he's always been a very private guy when it comes to personal issues, and this is the biggest personal issue in the world.

He doesn't seem to mind talking about his illness, but he doesn't bring it up, either. I'm always too dense to know when it should be discussed, and when it's best to go with distractions. I'm just doing my best to let him know that I'm here for him in whatever capacity he needs, and that he's not only still the boss, but my friend.
 
NcGunny said:
Will do!!! She wont be home till Saturday morning to pick it up.
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How exciting. I remember the anticipation, waiting to get our Gracie girl. She was born on NYE, we put the down payment on her in January & couldn't pick her up until late February! It was so hard - the waiting!! Here she is on her 1st day at home. And the pic below is her now - Christmas 2015. LOL
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FrostyKnowsBest said:
Happy midday mmc! Most of you are almost through your day! I'm at a doctors appointment in one of the biggest gowns I've ever seen! I could use this as a blanket! They've told me she's running behind, I've been in here for almost an hour. The best part is I am able to read all of your posts! Hope you all have a beautiful day!
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Happy Friday Eve, FKB!
Hope your doctors appointment goes well, and you're not waiting much longer.
Hope you have a merry rest of your day!
 
Holiday said:
That sounds miserable. Hope the storms aren't bad! We are currently at 52º - I'll stop whining! ;)
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It isn't too pleasant ;)

But I'll still try and help you!

Hope the sunshine sticks around, and it warms up nice for you guys!
 
Holiday said:
How exciting. I remember the anticipation, waiting to get our Gracie girl. She was born on NYE, we put the down payment on her in January & couldn't pick her up until late February! It was so hard - the waiting!! Here she is on her 1st day at home. And the pic below is her now - Christmas 2015. LOL
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I can't see the pics for some reason but I remember how cute she was as a baby.
 
Bradmac said:
Undoubtedly! I still go into his office with my coffee for our morning politics rant, and I joked about The Great Spelling Bee Fiasco yesterday. That got big laughs. But he's always been a very private guy when it comes to personal issues, and this is the biggest personal issue in the world.

He doesn't seem to mind talking about his illness, but he doesn't bring it up, either. I'm always too dense to know when it should be discussed, and when it's best to go with distractions. I'm just doing my best to let him know that I'm here for him in whatever capacity he needs, and that he's not only still the boss, but my friend.
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You're doing great Brad. I can tell how much you care about him so I am sure he can feel that too. In these circumstances all we can do is your best and you are. Prayers continue for all of you. It's such sad situation.
 
FrostyKnowsBest said:
Happy midday mmc! Most of you are almost through your day! I'm at a doctors appointment in one of the biggest gowns I've ever seen! I could use this as a blanket! They've told me she's running behind, I've been in here for almost an hour. The best part is I am able to read all of your posts! Hope you all have a beautiful day!
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Oh dear Hope your not there too much longer! Good luck with everything.
 
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