When we lived in town we "did" Halloween up right! We had between 80 & 125 trick-or-treaters, depending on the year. We lived there for 6 years & loved every Halloween there. DH decorated the porch with pumpkin, ghost, & Frankenstein lights, spider webs, flying bat, luminary Halloween bags on the lawn, a graveyard in the yard, ghosts hanging up, Halloween cartoons playing on the porch. Both sets of our parents would come over for homemade chili & sandwich & we'd just hang out for a couple of hours & hand out candy. Loved it! I think we went overboard because neither one of us had trick-or-treaters where we lived growing up.
When we moved to our home now (where DH grew up), we've had one trick-or-treater, not counting neice & nephew who came one year. Now that we have DD, we take her to Halloween in the City. The downtown businesses & churches set up tables with candy and you just walk the streets. The only house we go to is DH's great-aunt, who keeps DD after school.
In '11, I took DD to my parent's house after school so they could see her in costume (20 minutes from our house). We surprised DH's parents & took DD to see them after going to Halloween in the City (45 minutes from our house.) In their subdivision, they won't let you drive in unless you have proof that you live there. The volunteer fire department blocks the entrance. Everyone has to park on the side of the highway & walk in to the subdivision. They have hundreds of trick-or-treaters. They complain about it every year, but DH & I would love it!! We know a guy who is in the fire department & he let us drive in & park at their house.
DD has never gone door-to-door trick-or-treating. I never liked going door-to-door as a kid, so I don't think she's missing anything. I bought two costumes at consignment last year for DD to wear. She wore the Supergirl costume last year, but I'm afraid the '50's poodle skirt outfit will be too little by this Halloween. I'm sure with her big imagination, she'll come up with something good!