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I do not remember bullying when I was in school. Like I said, I was raised in the old days and people seemed more tolerant. Not any drug babies that I knew of!!! In my school, we had one (and only one) student who would be classified as special ed. But we didn't have special ed back then. NO ONE would ever have made fun of her for any reason. I think we were all protective of her. I don't see that at all nowadays. How sad. I am not sure when I first recall recognizing bullying at school. It is now so serious that we have to have assembies on the subject. We have to be diligent in tracking what appears to be bullying. On a sad note, we do not have support at our school to help us with bullying. I handle it myself because the administration does not want to confront parents because she might have problems with the parents of the bully and his or her family and because it would give her a black name with higher administration (fear of too many negative comments that might make her lose her job). This is the saddest thing at my school. I cannot believe that someone would put his or her own interest before the safety and well-being of students. What I started doing was to document ALL my reports of bullying with copies of everything and with getting info from the students directly and making those comments available to the principal. For me, this has done the trick; but I wonder how many other teachers don't do this. I want things documented that I did my part, but the admin failed! Sorry that I have rambled, but this is a SORE subject with me!!!!!!

Good for you, standing up for what's right and doing something against the bullying. Both of us were smart kids in school and had more than our share of verbal, physical, and mental abuse. (I skipped a grade, so I also got flak from other students' mothers, so their kids felt like they had permission to pick on me.) How wonderful it would have been to have a teacher like you back then.
 
I can't believe I am still awake at 10pm! should not have taken that nap I guess! I usually go to bed around 8 and get up at 4 or 5 am. my dogs are pooped out and sleeping on the couch..they will not go to bed without me..I still have to take them out one more time tonight.I hope everyone has a great night!
 
We didn’t have bullying as they call it now days when I was in school. We had Valentine’s Day parties in grade school only (K-6) and as far as I know we all got a card never heard anyone who didn’t. Remember a few doctoring of cards trying to be funny and as I remember we kids thought was funny that a couple of teachers didn’t agree with but that is all I remember. Small gifts were exchanged at Christmas by drawing a number and either buying a gift for a boy or girl depending on the number we drew. The night before the Christmas party Santa paid a visit and left treats and a number for each student that would match a gift under the tree. Yes we had REAL Christmas trees in our class rooms. Also had the words Merry Christmas all over the schools and was the focal point of all Christmas plays I was ever a part of. Never heard or remember hearing anyone upset with the trees or the words Merry Christmas. One thing I do remember and this was a huge thing with one of my Grandfathers as well but the word XMAS was not allowed to be used at all.

I won’t go in to details as to why but all the way up to 8th grade I went to no less than 9 different public schools so made lots of friends and saw several different schools. I wasn’t a very popular person per say semi stayed to myself but still got around as well. I had no idea what special education was either. I heard about it from my high school friends as it was only in the high schools back in the 60’s to 70’s and was less than a class room full.

In grade school if you failed, you failed. I remember a few who did. Not like it is today where a parent had to approve keeping a student back a year, which parents won’t. We had a Board of Education as well, only it was not a group of adults who met and talked about the school. It was a room somewhere in the school and each school I was at had a different room for it where if you got in trouble enough you would for sure find out what room it was in. I never did myself or knew anyone who did but we always heard stories of someone who did. Our teachers were in charge and we all knew it and never pushed the issue wasn’t the board of education that bothered us it was later at home that night that did if we took a note home to be signed. In as we called Jr. High which was 7 to 9 grade we got an extra hour of school if we didn’t behave and that extra school at the end of the day had a real effect in making you act as a student should.

We as kids had respect and we knew our place as children. A lot of us had guns in the house and we all knew in no way shape or form to even think about touching one let alone getting one out for whatever reason. We didn’t feel the need for a weapon at school anyway.

Today a lot of kids have no respect and they have parents who won’t face reality. The issues in the schools today didn’t start in the schools they started in the homes and in the government. I remember the change starting my 8th grade year in school. Looking back I see how it was starting to change then.

Yes I very well know where the problem is today in our schools as in a lot of places. Just too bad nothing is being done to fix it.
 
Good evening,

It was a long day today, my little monster LC wore every ounce of energy out of me today. I hope everyone had a great day.

Have a good night!
 
Well I am off to bed. Goodnight Everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Good morning everyone! it's a cool 42F outside this morning. I'm not sure if it's going to be as sunny today as it has been in the past few days. Just getting up and still half asleep.lol I had wierd dreams! anyways.hope everone has a great morning!
 
Good Morning MMC !

turning milder here for a few days, most likely just long enough to melt off some of this snow before it starts up again! cheesy

Going to take mom to visit her brand new great granddaughter this afternoon.
 
Good morning friends. Busy busy day in the transit world today (my world). Wishing everyone a safe, productive and thrilling day!
 
I just woke up after sleeping 10 hours. My throat doesn't hurt as bad and just trying to wake up to see if I am all better. I will know after breakfast.

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Good Morning!

Indeed Christmas-A-Holic, we are over the hump (or at least we will be after midday) and ready to coast on downhill into another glorious weekend!
(And isn't that view to the weekend nice from the peak-of-the-week?)

Speaking of views, here's a great one of our declining count:
Days to the Season: 270
Days to Christmas Day: 312
A scant 12 days now until the 300-day window to Christmas opens to let the sun of the 200's stream in!

Another chilly begining here in Raleigh where we have started just above the freezing mark on our way to the low 60's and wonderful walk weather!
And no more than a 10 percent chance of rain shows through the weekend.

OK! Mid-week. And you know what that means!
Yes, Carl and Company are already at the door of the Shispering Pines ready with tea and fired twinkies for all visitors.
(Are you ready, Holiday?)

Have a Wonderful Wednesday, Everybody!
 
OK! Mid-week. And you know what that means!
Yes, Carl and Company are already at the door of the Shispering Pines ready with tea and fired twinkies for all visitors.
(Are you ready, Holiday?)

Have a Wonderful Wednesday, Everybody!

Lining up for the weekly visit ... so glad it's Wednesday!
 
Well when I went to be last night there was a house across the street. When I got up this morning I wasn't so sure it's still there. We have very very thick fog this morning around here. Not seen fog like this in years. Then to top it off and I am blaming this on the fog I thought it was Thursday and started getting ready for Thursday things then it dawned on me it's only Wednesday. I swear I am such an idiot sometimes.:rolleyes:
 
Well when I went to be last night there was a house across the street. When I got up this morning I wasn't so sure it's still there. We have very very thick fog this morning around here. Not seen fog like this in years. Then to top it off and I am blaming this on the fog I thought it was Thursday and started getting ready for Thursday things then it dawned on me it's only Wednesday. I swear I am such an idiot sometimes.:rolleyes:

We are having nice but very wierd weather for Feb..the jet stream has changed and now it's the west that is getting winter.midwest through eastcoast getting above average temps.very wierd but nice for now!
 
Well today is turning out to be complete hell on earth! mountains of paperwork and that is on top of supervising the control tower! deep breath count to ten and repeat.....Hope everyone is having a better day than me!!;)
 
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