I forgot to wrote this in my earlier post, my oldest is starting to question the existence of Santa Claus.
When my wife was getting ready to leave for work this morning, he kept asking her if she is really Santa Claus. Her response was classic, "Do I look like a jolly fat guy?" But he kept asking if she was the one that brought the presents.
I knew this wasn't going to last forever, but it is really sad that my oldest is starting to not believe in Santa anymore. I truly believed until I was 13-14 years old. I don't want to tell him yet, I was hoping to get through one last Christmas with him truly believing. Hopefully he won't question it again for a little while, but reality is coming and we must let him know probably sooner rather than later.
This has really upset me, I am not ready for him to not believe anymore. I just really don't want him to ruin it for his little brother. I still believe in Santa Claus, and I need to let him know that Santa was a real person and we have to keep his legacy going.
I am going to have to pick up the book "The Santa Club" that was reviewed here a few years ago, and let him read it to try to not ruin it for his brother. http://christmasfinest.com/2011/09/10/book-review-the-santa-club/
Reading your post, made me reflect to when my daughter started going to Middle School (on the school bus) and the kids there teased her about her believing in Santa Claus. I always had told her that there was a Santa Claus and then came that dreadful day, one day, when I walked past her door, she was in her bedroom, lying in her bed, crying.
I went in rubbed her head and of course, she told me what had happened and the teasing that occurred that day on the bus.... I was devastated that a part of her youth was now torn away because of a bunch of non-believer's on a school bus.... So, with her lying there and me sitting on her bed, I told he the truth about everything, including that he was a real person in life (and a Saint) and that I believe in the spirit, goodwill and generosity of Santa Claus. I even read to her the reply to Virginia O'hanlon's letter by Francis Pharcellus Church~
It helped alot, and our talk and the time we shared together, made her think alot about what we hold true, private and dear to out hearts. To this very day, and as recently as this year, she told me this, "I Believe"!
I love my little girl; who will be 19 soon....



















