Well, I've been busy continuing the loving task of promises made which included a few notifications.
Found two beautiful urns; I decided to keep some of his remains in one that has a cardinal perched on an off-white egg that will be sealed and set up on the memorial display table and will nest on my hutch before and after the event.
The other is a small wooden box with etched carvings that will hold the ashes to be scattered.
I met with my boss and told her I was thinking of returning tomorrow; she urged me to take the rest of the week off. As purpose driven as I am; she's right.
I stopped by the Christmas Store and bought three special gifts to help tell a few stories about the simple things he enjoyed at Christmas; ornaments I never saw in time to give him.
I'll visit with my dad a bit tomorrow before he heads out of town.
The venue I wanted isn't available; it's happening on the Canada Day long weekend so there are some weddings and things I may have to contend with.
I decided to have the gathering from 4:00-8:00 p.m. that way some of the immediate family can continue to celebrate his memory and make new ones together in private.
Oddly enough, returning his meds to the pharmacy for safe disposal and dropping the urns and marriage certificate off at the funeral home was as tough as it could be as I realize that our government will soon deem me a widow.
Number 1 son checked in with me an hour ago.
This song kicked shortly thereafter.
I'm trying to keep a merry thought in my head
Continuing to keep you in my prayers, Auntie! (((hugs))) my beautiful friend <3