Good morning everyone here...not having a good day.You know how it is when your kids(in this case my oldest son-16) say things to you that really hurt you?? Well that's what has happened to me this morning. Now, I'm a person that believes in tough love, but sometimes it hurts pretty bad. I don't want to continue to be a downer, so I will just leave it at that.
Awww snowytree, sorry to hear you are having a rough day. It does seem to hurt more when our kids hurt our feelings. I know it hurts me more. It makes me kinda feel unappreciated when it comes from the kids. But the love we have for them as parents makes our heart heal quickly for some reason. Hang in there. As a mother of 2 boys (27 and 18), I have learned that eventually they realize there is no other love in the world as a parents love. Eventually they realize how their words and behavior have hurt us. And the joy comes when they realize and acknowledge it. You are NOT a downer. Just a parent dealing with children in that teenage stage. And believe me, many of us truly understand. ((((HUGS)))). I hope your day gets better.