Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma was the third type of cancer my ex-DIL survived. The first one was ovarian, the second breast cancer. She was so far advanced that they didn't think there was any hope. Alas, she beat it!
I lost an adult friend to lung cancer. That was rough on me. We were close which was not an easy task because she was such a private person. She let me in and I will always remain happy that I earned her trust and friendship. I still miss her.
I have tears in my eyes. Your ex-DIL has to be a VERY strong person. Again I say, God Bless her.
I am sorry to hear about your friend. I am glad she did include you on her embark. I am sure it was hard for her.
My dad's dad actually had lung too, then it spread. He did from it when I was only three, so I never really knew him. He died two days after Christmas.