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B]No More Rants Like This One, on This Subject[/B]
This has been the most stressful week for me in a long time. I had to make a difficult, life-threatening decision. I had to decide if I were willing to die for my convictions. I chose to say, “Yes, I am.” On the other had, our school superintendent also had to make the same decision: Is HE willing that I die for HIS DECISION? I can only assume that the answer was yes. You see, on Monday I was called into the principal’s office and was told that my choice of a sub was being negated, that I had to have a person from the high school come in and sub in my classroom during the time I needed to be off for cancer surgery, reconstructive surgery, and chemo. I had to tell the sub that I had already selected and worked with since January 2012 that she could not be my sub because someone at the high school did not want to be at the high school but wanted to be at the elementary school. I was totally blindsided!!! I tried to wrap my brain around that one and just could not. But, hey, what’s a little more stress for a cancer patient, right?
I let my union rep and my principal know that the situation was not acceptable to me. The district superintendent emailed me that he would like to meet and asked when I was free. I told him when my prep time was. He said he would “try” to be there. He never showed. No contact whatsoever. So there was answer #1. I saw him in the principal’s office after school. He never tried to see me. Answer #2. As a newly-made (?) mind reader/psychic, I can only conclude that he does not want and will not try to work anything out.
A funny side note: The principal said that they were trying to save me stress by doing what they did. Excuse me??? Please. Tell me what was stress-saving and not stress-making!!! I had no real stress to speak of until Monday when the bomb about my selected sub was dropped!!!
I was also told by a friend tonight that she was told that she should “talk to your friend” about her decision. Whoa!!! Then my friend was told that the district can MAKE me stay out if they (the district) thought I was too sick to work!!! What is next? Will Jehovah Witness teachers/staff or Christian Scientist teacher/staff be told they must have blood transfusions if the district thought they were sick enough for one??? Again, I say, what is next???
Too, I think, why does the district want to pit one teacher against another? Is the teacher at the high school so highly thought of that her wants are to be considered above mine? For some odd reason, I don’t think so. I honestly feel that my classroom has become a dumping ground for a teacher, for whatever reason, does not fit in at the high school. I am so sorry, but that is not MY problem.
Then tonight, I receive an email from my principal that I am out of sick leave and that if I take off any more days that my pay will be docked. (I had put in for a Workman’s Comp day to see the Workman’s Comp doctor and I had put in for a personal day during the time I should have been off for cancer treatment.) I told her that one of those days was Workman’s Comp but that it was okay with me if she docked me!!! I totally loved veiled threats, don’t you??? But I love being a Steel Magnolia better!!! Ever heard of the Tarheels??? I am one!!!