Christmas Countdown - 2019

[sugar142286]

Well, we found a lump under the dog's front right leg and the vet says it's a severe allergic reaction. We assume he's allergic to wheat and chicken as we've pulled those two ingredients out of his diet before and any reactions have disappeared. We've caught the FIL, who has vascular dementia, feeding the dog, even though he had been told not to. And we suspect the dog has been going downstairs and eating anything he finds on the FIL's floor, like biscuits and cookies.

So, the solution is the restrict access to the basement by getting a pet gate to put across the stairs to the basement so the dog doesn't go downstairs. Plus, we have to find one that can be opened easily so the FIL isn't banished to the basement and can leave freely. The gate has been ordered and should be here in a couple of days.

We can't blame the dog. He's just taking advantage of free food and doesn't know any better. Plus any conversation with the FIL is met with confusion, because of his dementia, as he doesn't remember feeding anything to the dog. The adventures continue.

Sorry about venting, but I just needed to express myself. In other news, there's some pumpkin roasting in the oven to be pureéd later for recipes and I've made a nice batch of blueberry oatmeal muffins for a church meeting later this week.

Don't be sorry for venting. That's why we're here. It's a sad situation all around. Dementia is such a sad, sad disease. I obviously see so many patients with it, sometimes daily and my grandmother had it, so I know first hand how bad it can be and when it affects you first hand, you know, but it's even worse when both your FIL and the dog are both involved and being affected. My thoughts go out to you. Hopefully the gate can be your resolve.

 

[sugar142286]

What a rough go of it your having. I’m sending happy vibes your way and prayers for quick relief. Blessings to you.

Thank you, HIS. I thank you for the kind words.

 

[sugar142286]

That is very sweet!!! 2 of my Great Nephews drew pictures when Mom passed - it was their best attempt at drawing a dead person/casket/tombstone. The older one wrote a note with it that said "I am sorey that you did but you are with God" From Mason. (and this exactly how he had everything spelled.) Too cute!

That is so sweet!

 

[sugar142286]

Good evening MMC !

still sick here, does not seem to want to let go.
Daughter had a fender bender this morning. Roads really bad, all school buses cancelled and country schools closed. She was not charged because of the roads.
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going to need a bit of work.
I wonder if Carl has some concoction to cure what ails me ?

hope you all have a great evening.

Hope you soon start to feel better soon and can kick it. As long as your daughter is okay, I always say, vehicle's are repairable! Stay safe!

 

[sugar142286]

So many people have a pinched nerve issue going on right now...what is up with that?? I hope you are feeling better soon. Takes awhile. I started with sciatica yesterday. I'm 99.9% sure it's b/c of my new job. I was sitting in a chair with a calculator for a really long time on Monday. I about went through the roof yesterday - many times. I could hardly stand it. I walked a lot last night & put an ice pack on it every hour for 15-20 minutes last night & today at work. The pain is definitely still there (gets dulled thanks to ibupro) but it was much better today than yesterday. Darn old age. LOL!!!
Have a good day Brad!

Praying you feel better soon! Not sure if you are a believer of chiropractors or massage, but those two things were always great for me when I had bad sciatic pain when I was pregnant.

 

[sugar142286]

sugar I'm sorry to read that the medicine you are taking has brought on symptoms of depression. How long do you have to take Prednisone? I'm keeping you in my thoughts for your condition to continue to improve and that you feel better mentally.

Well, I'm on a taper dose. I'm currently on 10 mg x 4 pills daily, which I'll eventually go down to 1 pill/daily and that's per week I taper, so I'll be doing this for several weeks yet. I see the dermatologist Friday about the rash. I keep telling myself, I have so much to be thankful for - the rash could have been so much worse, causing loss of limb, skin, eyes, etc., or even my life, since they did tell me that's what would have happened if I wouldn't have gotten the appropriate treatment within 72 hours. So...in light of things, I keep thanking God that if I have scars, which I may, it's okay. I know the doctor said in the hospital it could take up to 6 months to year to lessen, if it ever does, but like I said, I just keep trying to remind myself, I have so, so much to be thankful for and I thank you for the prayers. Everyday is getting better. Like I said in a previous post, I have a huge support system and I have you guys too, which I cannot thank you all enough for!

 

[sugar142286]

I doubt I'll be able to stick around, but I'm here now - PINES DAY!!!

Happy Pines Day, Auntie! Party!!!

 

[sugar142286]

Happy Pines Day; second of the New Year - whaaat?

Wanted to offer up a festive poem I wrote many years ago; included in the odd Christmas card ...

Before Santa Claus arrives with or without snow,
I'll hang the outdoor lights and a festive bow.
For the reindeer, I’ll leave a treat or two,
And I’ll be sure to clean the chimney flue.
Santa will nod as he leaves a gift by the tree,
A special surprise he chose just for me.

With or without snowflakes touching the ground
I wish you and yours a blessed Christmas found.

~ AuntieMistletoeDear

Keep a merry thought in your head!

Remember Christmas is either her or it is always on the way!

Very festive, Auntie! Love it!

 

[sugar142286]

Good evening, friends and Happy Pines Day! Sorry if I've been a downer with all my medical talk today, but I appreciate all the prayers and thoughtfulness. You guys are truly the best.

I'm just sitting here, trying to stay way and watching tv, chatting with a friend. My mom was going to come in and spend the tonight and tomorrow night with me, but the weather got really bad and it's supposed to get really windy as the night goes on, so I told her I would be fine and since it's is looking okay for tomorrow evening, she could try it then. DH is at work, kids are doing their thing, which it will soon be bed time anyway. I wouldn't be surprised if they have a delay tomorrow.

I can't remember if I mentioned it yesterday or not, but tomorrow will be the second anniversary of Ella's death. It doesn't matter how much time passes, it doesn't seem to get much easier for DH and myself. She was my first pet and was such an amazing dog. I miss her everyday and of course at this time of the year, I miss her more than words. I know I've been asking you guys for a lot of prayers, but if you guys could please just keep my family in your thoughts tomorrow, we would appreciate them greatly. Ella's favorite food was pancakes, with continues to be all my dogs favorite food, so DH said he's coming home and making that for the kids for breakfast in honor of her and having a special moment of silence for her in the morning. DH of course will leave for work around 4 tomorrow afternoon, but I think him and I will just relax tomorrow and just enjoy each other's company, with the dogs.

Hope you are all having a great day and staying safe!

 

[xmas365]

Good evening, friends and Happy Pines Day! Sorry if I've been a downer with all my medical talk today, but I appreciate all the prayers and thoughtfulness. You guys are truly the best.

I'm just sitting here, trying to stay way and watching tv, chatting with a friend. My mom was going to come in and spend the tonight and tomorrow night with me, but the weather got really bad and it's supposed to get really windy as the night goes on, so I told her I would be fine and since it's is looking okay for tomorrow evening, she could try it then. DH is at work, kids are doing their thing, which it will soon be bed time anyway. I wouldn't be surprised if they have a delay tomorrow.

I can't remember if I mentioned it yesterday or not, but tomorrow will be the second anniversary of Ella's death. It doesn't matter how much time passes, it doesn't seem to get much easier for DH and myself. She was my first pet and was such an amazing dog. I miss her everyday and of course at this time of the year, I miss her more than words. I know I've been asking you guys for a lot of prayers, but if you guys could please just keep my family in your thoughts tomorrow, we would appreciate them greatly. Ella's favorite food was pancakes, with continues to be all my dogs favorite food, so DH said he's coming home and making that for the kids for breakfast in honor of her and having a special moment of silence for her in the morning. DH of course will leave for work around 4 tomorrow afternoon, but I think him and I will just relax tomorrow and just enjoy each other's company, with the dogs.

Hope you are all having a great day and staying safe!

I will keep your family in my thoughts.

 

[sugar142286]

I will keep your family in my thoughts.

Thanks so much, Xmas.

 

[xmas365]

It was crazy today!!! Freezing and heavy wind whipped snow showers. I don’t know why I even left the apartment!! I went to the south side though and hit up 5 different stores looking at Christmas stuff. I only bought a couple wreaths though.

At least you found something and it wasn't a was wasted trip. I have yet to go out bargain hunting this year.

 

[xmas365]

Happy Pines Day; second of the New Year - whaaat?

Wanted to offer up a festive poem I wrote many years ago; included in the odd Christmas card ...

Before Santa Claus arrives with or without snow,
I'll hang the outdoor lights and a festive bow.
For the reindeer, I’ll leave a treat or two,
And I’ll be sure to clean the chimney flue.
Santa will nod as he leaves a gift by the tree,
A special surprise he chose just for me.

With or without snowflakes touching the ground
I wish you and yours a blessed Christmas found.

~ AuntieMistletoeDear

Keep a merry thought in your head!

Remember Christmas is either her or it is always on the way!

Great poem, AMD

 

[xmas365]

So many people have a pinched nerve issue going on right now...what is up with that?? I hope you are feeling better soon. Takes awhile. I started with sciatica yesterday. I'm 99.9% sure it's b/c of my new job. I was sitting in a chair with a calculator for a really long time on Monday. I about went through the roof yesterday - many times. I could hardly stand it. I walked a lot last night & put an ice pack on it every hour for 15-20 minutes last night & today at work. The pain is definitely still there (gets dulled thanks to ibupro) but it was much better today than yesterday. Darn old age. LOL!!!
Have a good day Brad!

I hope the pain goes away quickly for you.

 

[xmas365]

Glad to hear they got home safely.

Yes, you're right. She may not fully understand what is totally going on, but know that people are hurting around her. Kids can tell and know when something is wrong and when to be strong. God love her.

Thank you - each day is getting better, but is still hard. I'm on Prednisone for my rash and it is making it very hard (has a lot of side effects, one including severe depression, which I've never had issues with before and now I'm experiencing), but my husband and family are being a huge support and and being here for me every step of the way.

I'm glad you have support from family, depression is such a hard thing to deal with, as I have learned first hand in the last year and a half.

 

[xmas365]

Good Wednesday morning, Christmas friends!

It's a lot cooler this morning, and, of course, windy. But at least it's not raining!

I'm feeling a little stretched-out with all my personal goings-on. I'm trying to get our roof replaced from damage from the hurricane last year, trying to get our septic system fixed, trying to get Jacob's car repaired from his fender-bender, trying to get some damage repaired at mom's place in the mountains, and trying to get this pinched nerve in my arm fixed before my hand weakness become permanent. Whew! I'm just full of complaints today, aren't I? Sorry.

Now for my praises: My family is happy and healthy, Nancy's mom is feeling better, my mom is doing great, and work is going well! Thank you, Father!

I hope y'all have a great Pines Day!

I hope things ease up on you soon, so you don't have to be so stretched out. You have a lot on your plate.

 

[HomemakinGirl]

So glad to hear the wedding was beautiful - I did notice you put picture on Facebook. but I'll be completely honest, I didn't get time to look. I'll have to try and get on tonight and look. I'm so sorry to hear your father hasn't been feeling well again. CHF is such an awful disease and is one that has so many ups and downs and has to be watched so carefully. I hope he is out of the hospital soon. Prayers for him and the entire family. Hope your daughter and new son-in-law are enjoying their honeymoon!

That's so exciting! Congrats to her! I'm praying you guys got some good news today. As far as the house work goes and I know I don't know you super well, but I can tell just from our convos here, you're always very poised and like to have things in line and done - which is wonderful and a great quality to have, but - if I've learned anything in the last couple weeks, that kind of stuff can wait. God Bless you, HMG. You are one of the best mother's, wives, and friends I "know" and spending time with family and making memories is always the number one priority. The dust and laundry can wait! You're doing a great job!

Good evening, friends and Happy Pines Day! Sorry if I've been a downer with all my medical talk today, but I appreciate all the prayers and thoughtfulness. You guys are truly the best.

I'm just sitting here, trying to stay way and watching tv, chatting with a friend. My mom was going to come in and spend the tonight and tomorrow night with me, but the weather got really bad and it's supposed to get really windy as the night goes on, so I told her I would be fine and since it's is looking okay for tomorrow evening, she could try it then. DH is at work, kids are doing their thing, which it will soon be bed time anyway. I wouldn't be surprised if they have a delay tomorrow.

I can't remember if I mentioned it yesterday or not, but tomorrow will be the second anniversary of Ella's death. It doesn't matter how much time passes, it doesn't seem to get much easier for DH and myself. She was my first pet and was such an amazing dog. I miss her everyday and of course at this time of the year, I miss her more than words. I know I've been asking you guys for a lot of prayers, but if you guys could please just keep my family in your thoughts tomorrow, we would appreciate them greatly. Ella's favorite food was pancakes, with continues to be all my dogs favorite food, so DH said he's coming home and making that for the kids for breakfast in honor of her and having a special moment of silence for her in the morning. DH of course will leave for work around 4 tomorrow afternoon, but I think him and I will just relax tomorrow and just enjoy each other's company, with the dogs.

Hope you are all having a great day and staying safe!

Sugar I can’t thank you enough for your kind words, thoughts and prayers. I truly appreciate it.
You will remain in my prayers as well. I’m sending love, light, and healing energy your way.
And I will keep all of you in my thoughts tomorrow. There isn’t a day that goes by that I do not think of Molly and Maggie at some point. It doesn’t matter how much time goes by. May memories bring you peace and comfort {{{ hugs}}}

 

[HomemakinGirl]

Continued prayers for your Dad!! So happy to hear the wedding was wonderful!! Good luck finding a venue for the next wedding! ♥

Thank you so much Holiday, we appreciate the prayers!
xo

 

[nmc42088]

Good Wednesday morning, Christmas friends!

It's a lot cooler this morning, and, of course, windy. But at least it's not raining!

I'm feeling a little stretched-out with all my personal goings-on. I'm trying to get our roof replaced from damage from the hurricane last year, trying to get our septic system fixed, trying to get Jacob's car repaired from his fender-bender, trying to get some damage repaired at mom's place in the mountains, and trying to get this pinched nerve in my arm fixed before my hand weakness become permanent. Whew! I'm just full of complaints today, aren't I? Sorry.

Now for my praises: My family is happy and healthy, Nancy's mom is feeling better, my mom is doing great, and work is going well! Thank you, Father!

I hope y'all have a great Pines Day!

I'm glad everyone is better but sorry to hear your stretched out

Glad to hear they got home safely.

Yes, you're right. She may not fully understand what is totally going on, but know that people are hurting around her. Kids can tell and know when something is wrong and when to be strong. God love her.

Thank you - each day is getting better, but is still hard. I'm on Prednisone for my rash and it is making it very hard (has a lot of side effects, one including severe depression, which I've never had issues with before and now I'm experiencing), but my husband and family are being a huge support and and being here for me every step of the way.

I hope as your dose lessens the side effects decrease. I will continue to send prayers.

That is very sweet!!! 2 of my Great Nephews drew pictures when Mom passed - it was their best attempt at drawing a dead person/casket/tombstone. The older one wrote a note with it that said "I am sorey that you did but you are with God" From Mason. (and this exactly how he had everything spelled.) Too cute!

So sweet! Kids seem to make things better

Good evening MMC !

still sick here, does not seem to want to let go.
Daughter had a fender bender this morning. Roads really bad, all school buses cancelled and country schools closed. She was not charged because of the roads.
View attachment 54656
going to need a bit of work.
I wonder if Carl has some concoction to cure what ails me ?

hope you all have a great evening.

Feel better! Glad your daughter is okay

Good evening, friends and Happy Pines Day! Sorry if I've been a downer with all my medical talk today, but I appreciate all the prayers and thoughtfulness. You guys are truly the best.

I'm just sitting here, trying to stay way and watching tv, chatting with a friend. My mom was going to come in and spend the tonight and tomorrow night with me, but the weather got really bad and it's supposed to get really windy as the night goes on, so I told her I would be fine and since it's is looking okay for tomorrow evening, she could try it then. DH is at work, kids are doing their thing, which it will soon be bed time anyway. I wouldn't be surprised if they have a delay tomorrow.

I can't remember if I mentioned it yesterday or not, but tomorrow will be the second anniversary of Ella's death. It doesn't matter how much time passes, it doesn't seem to get much easier for DH and myself. She was my first pet and was such an amazing dog. I miss her everyday and of course at this time of the year, I miss her more than words. I know I've been asking you guys for a lot of prayers, but if you guys could please just keep my family in your thoughts tomorrow, we would appreciate them greatly. Ella's favorite food was pancakes, with continues to be all my dogs favorite food, so DH said he's coming home and making that for the kids for breakfast in honor of her and having a special moment of silence for her in the morning. DH of course will leave for work around 4 tomorrow afternoon, but I think him and I will just relax tomorrow and just enjoy each other's company, with the dogs.

Hope you are all having a great day and staying safe!

Enjoy your night! Sending extra prayers

 

[HomemakinGirl]

HMG congratulations to your daughter on now being married and yourself for putting on that beautiful wedding (I don't use Facebook much so I can't see the pictures but I'm sure it was just as you described). I hope your father will be home soon. I'm sure it meant as much to him as to your daughter that he was able to attend her wedding. Try and take good care of yourself, you have been so busy these past few weeks.

Thank you so much Martine, I’m going to send you a pm.
xx