Sad news folks: we had to have the “Santa Talk” last night with DD, who is 11. There were too many kids at school telling her Santa wasn’t real & her best friends told her “You need to talk to your mom about that.” DD cried, DH & I wanted to cry, but we made it through & she’s not mad at us. We explained how everything happened and told her how we found out that our parents were the ones who gave us the gifts on Christmas morning. We explained about St. Nicholas & how Santa Claus wasn’t a lie, but more like meeting characters at Disney World. We told her some people don’t let their kids believe in Santa and she understands that she shouldn’t spoil it for other kids.
This morning, she asked about her “Elf on the Shelf” and I had to confess that I’m the one who moves him. I told her she could do it now, but she said she still doesn’t want to touch it until she’s an adult.
I tried to explain that just because she knows, doesn’t mean that Christmas isn’t magical anymore. I told her Christmas Eve is still my favorite day of the year and I still get excited. I’m afraid it still won’t be the same. Our little girl is growing up!