I wish it were October again.....without hurricanes.
My SIL went to the ER yesterday. She is 80 and has congestive heart failure. She is in denial. She had gone to visit my brother in the VA nursing home when she started feeling funny. She drove herself to the hospital. Thankfully, she got there in one piece and didn't cause an accident. Their daughter is in the air right now and will be with her Mom by 5pm.
I have to visit my brother at dinner time. My SIL is convinced he can no longer eat by himself and nobody feeds him. She goes for lunch every day and makes sure he eats.
There seems to be sickness all around me. My best friend, who is also my housemate, has been down with the flu or something similar for over two weeks. It's not Covid. We both tested negative three times and I've felt fine....except for that pesky ALS that keeps me from doing the things I need to do.
On a better note, I have everything in the freezer or refrigerator for Thanksgiving. Now that my niece will also be here, I'm relieved. She is a great cook, excellent speed in the kitchen and has no health issues. She'll be 60 this coming year and has never had to take any medicine for anything. With each of her four children, she gained exactly 25 pounds and it was gone within a month after delivery. Can you tell I'm a proud aunt? We are only 7 years apart so we grew up together. My brother is 19 years older than me....same parents.
I just need to remember to take the turkey and tenderloin roast out in time and make the lobster mac & cheese next Wednesday. Everything else will fall into place.
I hope my SIL and housemate are both well and the housemate is better so we can have visitors.
I always wear an N95 mask when I visit my brother. I've only had a few colds in my life so I may go around asymptomatic for all I know. I've never had the flu. I just want to protect people around me in case I'm carrying something. I also always do a quick Covid test before I go or before people come over.
The ER doctor said my SIL probably has long haul Covid. She was sick for over a month back in August and, the doctor thinks, she never fully recovered. They want her to get another booster ASAP.
So, the countdown continues with or without us.
Count your blessings every day and give thanks for the many years you've had thus far.