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You're a great friend, and you're doing just right. Let him know that you're okay with him talking about it, but after that, let him bring up the subject if he wishes.Undoubtedly! I still go into his office with my coffee for our morning politics rant, and I joked about The Great Spelling Bee Fiasco yesterday. That got big laughs. But he's always been a very private guy when it comes to personal issues, and this is the biggest personal issue in the world.
He doesn't seem to mind talking about his illness, but he doesn't bring it up, either. I'm always too dense to know when it should be discussed, and when it's best to go with distractions. I'm just doing my best to let him know that I'm here for him in whatever capacity he needs, and that he's not only still the boss, but my friend.
We had a friend years ago (living in a different state) who got a terminal diagnosis. He stopped communicating with almost everybody outside of his family because he felt awkward. Eventually he opened up to Mr., who had been a friend of his for a long time, and Mr told him about my experience. I advised our friend to NOT to keep his friends in the dark any longer---everyone we knew who knew him was worried and wanted to know what had happened to him. He finally re-established connections with people, thank goodness. We lent him loads of videos to fill his time, and he sent us loads in return. We miss him, and we treasure sharing those last few months with him, even from a distance.